Monday, December 15, 2008
Random Quotes & Stories..
Morgan: "Mommy, you are big and strong... just like a Hippo." Obviously he has the zoo on his brain...
Cade: " You are the best Mommy any little boy could have." Please note that I had just let him play and additional half-hour on the Wii.
Morgan: "Red means GO and Green means STOP...on opposite day."
Stories:
As Morgan and I are walking through DFW Airport on Friday he is determined to find the kid's play area. So what is the logical thing to do?
Morgan: " Mommy, I will call for the play area."
Cassandra: 'Okay sweetie." He then proceeds to yell at the top of his lungs...
Morgan: "KIDS PLAY AREA...KIDS PLAY AREA...WHERE ARE YOU?"
Okay last little story. We have now been in Fort Smith for three full days. Morgan and Cade have now broken two things within that time! Boys will be boys...
Night...
Cass
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
This and Thats for the week...
First One...
Did you know that Snow globes are filled with alcohol? and lots and lots of GLITTER!!! Morgan turned two of our globes into maracas, but be careful- if they hit its glass and glitter everywhere...
Second One...
Day one and a half for Christmas decorations. snow globes are gone so what else could happen? Those that know me well know I love Christams decorations- hence the fact that I have 4 trees in my home. Only 3 this year those because one is MIA. I get a call from Bob Monday morning and guess what? One of the trees fell over. CRAZY BOYZ! So it is now Boys-2, Christmas-0
Last One...
Cade and I snuggle up tight under a fleece blank for out nightly reading, and I mention that my feet are cold. Next thing I know he is streaking off to my room, and I hear muffled opening and closing of dresser drawers. My sweet little man brought we some socks and lots of smiles.
Good Night Everyone...
Cass
Monday, December 1, 2008
this time of year...
Saturday, November 29, 2008
Talkin' the lingo...
Cade says, "Hey Mom. Dad and I are off to flip some vids. See ya."
huh?
Cass
Friday, November 28, 2008
Chewbacca...
Daddy says, "Wow! Your Chewbacca Outfit is cool Morgan."
Morgan says, "I know Daddy, that's why I am wearing it!"
This comes the morning after he wakes up in the middle of the night sweating profusely because he fell asleep in the hairy costume that does not breathe...
Love this creative soul...
Cass
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Thanksgiving Day...
It went so smoothly I was shocked, granted we all ate lunch in our pajamas...
Turkey...sweet potato souffle...my grandma's hot rolls (which I am proudest of)...apple pie...green bean bundles...corn...and cranberry sauce. Below is the pictures of the table.
The boys were good sports and ate. I am still waiting for the day when they become bottomless pits.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Cass
Quick Action Story of the Day...
I am not panicked, just curious- Where is he?
I begin to call his name, and I hear this, "I am in here Mommy!"
No way surely he isn't. I walk into the guest bathroom where the little voice called.
He pulls back the shower curtain with a smile- because it is logical that instead of being in bed fast asleep, he is sitting in the bathtub.
'Hi Mommy, I am just meditating'.
Got to love them for all their quirks...
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
We have been waiting 6 years for this day...
Fun things I don't want to forget:
- Morgan Calls soggy bread from a bread bowl 'gum', and he loves it.
- Cade loves to eat the crusty part of french bread, but he refuses to eat the crust of his sandwiches. Why?
Lastly... THIS IS ME JUMPING UP AND DOWN AND DOING CARTWHEELS. AFTER 6 VERY LONG MONTHS OUR TEAM SUCCESSFUL OPENED BOTH THE MADISON AVE-NY AND THE HIGHLAND VILLAGE-HOUSTON COLE HAAN STORES BEFORE BLACK FRIDAY! If you are ever in either cities please check them out. Alot of blood, sweat and tears went into these stores.
Good Night...Cass
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Officially a crazy 35 year old...
At least I will get to hang out in Starbucks with my tall Chai, reading my book (from my 'List of Books' of course) prior to the movie. I might even need to go for a Venti so I can stay awake...
Off to be dazzled...(only a twilighter will know what that means!)
Cass
Sunday, November 16, 2008
The Beach...
A one-sided conversation with Morgan...
Says Morgan:
'Gorillas...What turns into Gorillas?' (Me thinking, huhhh?)
'Gorillas are not our friends. Until they turn into Giraffes.'
'Giraffes are our friends. And Dolphins are our friends.'
Then in a low whisper, barely audible. 'Sharks...sharks are bad.'
I guess it is time for a trip to the aquarium to feed the sharks, and then to the zoo to see the baby gorilla. Below is a picture of Morgan yesterday playing a gorilla.
Hope you are surrounded by 'your friends' today...
Cass
Friday, November 14, 2008
We grow them big in Washington...
Enjoy, but don't eat...leave that to the squirrels.
Cass
Random Thoughts & Quotes by Morgan...
'The Moon is made of chicken.'
'Mommy, it's called GREEN grass, not EMERALD grass'
'Mommy, we don't eat farm pigs...we eat the pigs made out of hot dogs.'
'Mommy, it's Christmas at Target!'
I love the complex mind of my 3 year old...
Cass
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Gazing at the Moon...
Night to you all...I hope your view was as clear as mine.
Cass
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Sadness...
Thank you Mom and Rod for knowing when I can talk and when I need to hang up the phone. Thank you for understanding that after 35 years I still get all awkward when placed in emotional situations. Thank you for being the best parents anyone could ask for, and for being parents that I can only hope to deserve someday.
My Grandmother Jackie passed away today...and I just feel numb with sadness. I am so thankful that I got to see her less than 1 month ago, and that it was a good day for her. I am thankful that she got to see Morgan one last time and experience his never ending energy. I am thankful I got to say goodbye and kiss her on the cheek. I am thankful that her family came together and was at her side everyday for the past 6 months. And finally, I am thankful that she had such a full life and she was ready.
Most of all though, I am thankful that I have a StepDad that was more of a Father to me than my Dad ever was to me. That he is such a strong Man and so kind and loving. I am thankful that he was with Grandma Jackie, holding her hand when she closed her eyes. I love you Rod.
Cass
Saturday, November 8, 2008
Don't Cross the Line...
Thank you Lord for giving me two sweet, active boys. That love to- give hugs, talk back, snuggle up tight to their mama, eat yogurt, drink water more than sugery drinks, keep me on my toes, drag all their toys out at once, build forts, play video games, walk on the beach...and finally to absolutely terrorize each other until I lose my mind. Wait a second...that happened long ago.
brainless mother signing off...
Cass
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
4th Picture Tag...
Okay my sweet friend who I haven't seen in (gasp!)
Great! My house is a mess (don't look under the sofa). This picture was taken November 5, 2005 around the time Morgan turned 6 months. What I remember most about this picture...
- How much I loved dressing Morgan in white, only white. It complemented his alabaster skin even more .
- His eyes were always so BIG and ALERT. He was such an easy happy baby (What happened?!@#?)
- He had already been crawling for one month and was into EVERYTHING.
- I had been back at work for 1 week and I missed my boys terribly.
- I remember wondering if his hair was ever going to grow???
Thanks for helping me remember this time Dallas.
Cass
Monday, November 3, 2008
It has Happened - We have a snaggle-tooth in our family...
Saturday, November 1, 2008
Sweet Moments...and Morning Giggles
I wake up with Cade crawling into bed with me, snuggling up close and falling back asleep. He loves to snuggle, but here is what makes me melt...His sweet little hand reaches up to face and he runs his finger down my cheek...He whispers, "I love you Mommy".
My morning tea - It is my guilty pleasure (Like your Sonic run Dallas!). I am once again at my favorite little street side espresso stand. The barista looks at me and says, "You are here quite often - every Saturday and Sunday. Do you have a punch card?" She then proceeds to hand me a card that has all but two areas punched. They have a customer FOR LIFE now.
Cade asked me to play with him this morning while I was starting breakfast. I stated, "I had to get the bacon started". I hear this far far away, little voice (Mojo) get really excited and say, "Bacon? Did someone say Bacon?"
Giggles to you all...
Cass
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
The Beach...
I love the beach...especially this beach. It is so peaceful and during the fall it is quiet. We had the beach all to ourselves until the scuba divers began to rise from the water! That was kind of freaky! Below is one of my favorite pictures taken this evening, along with a beautiful photo of my 3 year old date. This beach has a way of calming me and helping me realize what is important and what I need to shrug off my shoulders.
Love you all!
Cass
Sunday, October 26, 2008
Quote of the DAY...
Ughhh. What have we created?
Enjoy the beautiful day.
Cass
Saturday, October 25, 2008
Soccer Balls and Pumpkins - They are different...
The weather was sooooooooooo beautiful that we decide to make the trek up to Skagit Valley for our traditional pumpkin picking trip. this is our 7th year doing this and every year it is a little bit different...a little bit better...and a lot easier.
There is cider, and apples, and gingerbread cookies, and lots and lots of pumpkins and other strange gourds. Below are the pictures from our trip. I hope you all enjoy and maybe next year it can be a tradition for your family as well!
BOO!
Cass
Saturday, October 18, 2008
Innocent until proven guilty...really?
Thursday, October 16, 2008
Old Friends, New Memories...
I have now been convinced to join Facebook which is just one more thing to suck away my free time, but it is too fun reconnecting with the past and the good friends that are still there!
Here is my wish to you all... find those old friends and make some new memories. We are not getting younger- but we are living better, fuller lives which makes for some funny stories.
Now to my dear friend...if I find the remains of an evergreen tree stump in my front yard around Christmas- I know who is responsible! (You know who you are!)
Night to you all...
Cass
Sunday, October 12, 2008
Cade & I...
After our coffee break we were off to the Edmonds Marina Beach. We love this beach no matter what time of the year it is. We diligently searched for beach jewels. This is the 'term' used in our family for glass that washes up on the beach that has been smoothed on the edges by the sand and causes the glass to resemble 'jewels'. We have a beautiful vase that holds all of our jewels that we have collected over the past 5 years. It is going to take another 10 years just to fill it! More trips to the beach are in our future.
I will leave you this evening with two photos. First one, Bob & the boys playing around (aka. Riding Daddy bearbacked).
Second Photo is Morgan 'pondering' the M&M's in the spider candy dish. He promises he only wanted to smell them! Yeah, judge the look on his face for yourself. The sunflowerers are Bob's from this year. They final bloomed (almost 2 months late because of our crazy weather this year!)
Night to you all...
Cass
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Boys relate everything to Superheros (or Villians)...
Quote of the Day...
Morgan: '"Mommy, your shoes look like Venom."
Cassandra: "heeheehee, they do!"
Friday, October 10, 2008
Quote of the DAY...
Quote of the Day:
Cade: "Mommy, you are one stubborn woman."
Never underestimate the vocabulary of a 6 year old.
Stubborn woman signing off,
Cass
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Touchdown, Cade...
Our big 'pretend' football player
Wednesday, October 8, 2008
Morgan sings bedtime songs...
He is our angel!
Cass
Monday, October 6, 2008
Seattle Night Out...
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Life in Washington...
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Ahhhhh, October...
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Technology to a 6 year old...
As I am sitting in my normal evening chair, tapping away on my laptop, cycling though my favorite websites, Cade interjects: "Mommy, I just don't get that. (pointing at my laptop) I just don't get the technology. Now I get that one (He points to our home computer). It has wires hanging out of it and it makes sense...but not this one (again, pointing at my laptop). It just sits in your lap."
I just love to see his brain turning!
Rest to you all...
Cass
Saturday, September 27, 2008
Disbelief...
Friday evening Bob alerted me to an email that he received from one of the soccer mom's on Cade's team about his behavior. As he continued to tell me the story, I had a full range of emotion running through my veins -
guilt - What am I doing wrong, where have I failed that I can not keep my child's behavior in check?
anger - how dare she send a message like this via email and proceed to copy 3 other mothers on the team.
sadness - were any of the children terrorized or upset because of Cade's behavior?
disbelief - 'includes all the above emotions in one'
The allegations were that Cade was bullying the other boys by calling them names and this transferred to the field by causing the other boys to have agressive behavior against each other.
Bob and I are not the type of parents that live under an 'illusion' that our Cade is a perfect little boy. We know his issues and we manage them daily. I do not doubt the allegations, but I do question the singular source. With influences coming from daycare & public school, Cade is constantly learning new 'words' and 'behaviors' that make us wince. We immediately step in with Cade to address them though. Do other mother's not deal with these same issues too?
I did speak to this mother personally at the game and got a better understanding of the situation. And ALAS, it was not just Cade's behavior but the other boys as well. This doesn't make it right, but it does help Bob and I influence Cade to make good choice in what he does and says. In this situation - Cade is an outsider as he does not go to the same school as all the other boys on the team so he just wants to please and to fit in, not injure...
Lesson that every one should follow, no matter what the situation:
Never send an email to someone about personal issues. ALWAYS treat it as it should be, both private and personal. Be strong and direct, always do it in person.
Love to you all...
Cassandra
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Turning corners...
Conversation of the Evening: (in the car on the way to Subway for Date night)
Morgan says, "Mommy are we going home?"
Cassandra says, "No, Sweetie."
Morgan says, "Aaahhhh, Tartar Sauce!"
Cassandra says, "heeheeheehee"
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Uses for a Banana...
-They make great mustaches
-They ring just like the telephones and fit comfortable on your shoulder.
-They are a jedi's light saber.
-They make a boom-a-rang (pssst- it doesn't come back though)
The unfortunate use...leave it to any boy, no matter how young, to weaponize a banana. A lazer gun.
Now with all this fun, THIS banana was just a toy. Next time you have a banana try and think of an alternate use! I hope it brings a smile to your eyes as well.
Go ape...
Cass
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Saturday Routines...
Fall has finally arrived in the Northwest. It was a wet one today and my goal today was to keep Morgan out of ALL puddles. Normally I would not mind the puddles but Crocs are not the best puddle slashing shoes and little Mojo dislikes wet socks.
I am closing in on completing all of the my Kono Challenge biking requirements. I will be moving onto the running portion this week. The biking has been enjoyable because I am able to multi-task with me newest literary obsession- The Twilight Saga. I blasted through the first two books and I am now trying to slow my pace with the third book, Eclipse. Similar to when I was reading the Harry Potter series- there is the desire to finish the series and then a let down when it has ended. Slowing down is soooooooo hard...
Off to Read some more...boys are sleeping.
Cass
Friday, September 19, 2008
Cade's Day Off...
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Curriculum Night....
(Hi Mom- If you are reading this , my behavior is now being mimicked- I can't wait for him to come home one day and say, " I was moved today because everyone sitting around me would not stop talking to me.")
He sits adjacent to the teacher's desk which Bob and I both appreciate since it definitely keeps him in line. It is amazing to see the amount of work they are producing in class everyday. Math, Reading, Writing, Social Studies, Art, Science...and the item I appreicate the most is that they journal. His dad is a talented writer and I know Cade will be someday as well. It is something that I hope he picks up and develops into a habit- my fingers are crossed.
Happy Learning...
Cass
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
I get to read a book to myself...
A Pile of Cheese...
So Morgan LOVES cheese, ALL cheese. He has a new pattern everytime we go to OSF or Pagliacci's Pizza. He creates a Mound of Parmesan Cheese on his plate and dives in - not with his hands or utensils though... He does this dunkin' for apples style without hands and comes up with cheese on the tip of his nose to the end of his chin. So charming.
So next time you are out and you grab the Parmesan Cheese, just remember that Mojo would love to be with you helping you to create the perfect pile of cheese!
Dive in Cheese lovers...
Cassandra
Monday, September 15, 2008
Schools & Gyms...
Today was the start of Cade's 3rd Week of School. He likes school so far and has a new friend, Brandon. One more for the two Brandon's he already knows. Back in my day all the girls were named Jennifer... Brandon must have been the name of choice for 2002!
Homework is already crazy. He gets it on Monday and it is due on Friday. It is usually about 6-8 pages of math, reading, patterning and writing. Then we have the books which include one he reads to us, one he looks at, and one we read to him. His reading and writing is improving everyday.
& Gyms...
Bob and I are in the middle of the 'Kona Challenge' at the YMCA. The boys go into 'the zone' while we try and complete an Iron Man triatholon in 6 weeks. I can't imagine if I had to do it all in one day! I am averaging about 12 miles on the bike and 1 mile on the treadmill for each work-out. Bob is doing it faster than me of course. I am hoping it will help me take off the extra pounds.
We are all exhausted now & homework is complete. Night to you all.
Cass
Sunday, September 14, 2008
Meadowdale County Park Beach...
We saw huge sections of mushroom growth on the trials and could hear the far away whistle of the trains down at the beach. A salmon stream weaves back and forth under the trail which the boys really enjoyed viewing. Once we finally arrived at the Beach the boys were CHARGED! Shoes off, Crocs on, and off they went. Bob and I divided and conquered as I chased Morgan and he chased Cade.
The walk back up was more challenging as they were tired. We played the cartoon character name game from A-to-Z which helped keep their mind off how tired they were. Morgan did not ask to be held until the last 2 inclines which was impressive. His little legs just gave out.
The things they say that can break our hearts:
Morgan: "Mommy, your not my friend anymore." Mommy:"That's okay Morgan, because I am still your mother." (this was all because he wanted to eat an ENTIRE bag of colored Goldfish)
Cade and the Mushrooms
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Bath Sea Creatures and Morgan...
Quote of the Evening:
Morgan: "Mommy, I cleaned my penis and tentacles."
Apparently he has been playing with his bath sea creatures too much!
Sweet dreams to you all.
Cass
The Fog...
Cade: "Mommy, Fog is what happens when the trees sweat."
How can you argue with that?
Enjoy the day...
Cass
Friday, September 12, 2008
Living an urban lifestyle...
Nighty Nighty!
Cassandra
Thursday, September 11, 2008
Off to the Races...
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Like Father, Like Son...
Keep Smiling- Love to you all. Cass
Date Night with Morgan...
School - Week 2:
Deep Breathe...This is the only thing that helps me keep my patience in check. Cade's stubborn streak is back and homework is again worst than a chore. He can be so proud of his work- which makes your heart soar- and then he can be so degrading to himself. I get so sad when this happens. Below is a picture of him concentrating and working diligently to complete the work. I welcome any and all advise for how to keep him positive about doing his school work.
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
How to Improvise 101...
Improvise 101:
Soup is on the stove, and Bob is walking out the door to a meeting. The boys have been promised grilled cheese, and I am completely out of bread. Hot Dog buns work great if you slice the top and bottom off to allow for toasting. Big hit tonight.
Cade & Morgan at Dinnertime...
In the middle of Nordstrom, in the Intimates area no less, and the boys are running through the bras and undies. How do I get these boys under control? Off to Cold Stone for some ice cream, and I make them WALK back through the mall with their ice cream. This is the calmest they've been all week. No hitting, running, jumping or fighting. The little voice inside me says 'yyeeaahh'.
Mommy's proud moment of the week:
Cade came home with his 'My S Book' from 1st Grade.. His Words: Sun, catS, and Slithering (His spelling for Slytherin). I think he is listening at night when I read!
Daddy's proud moment of the week:
Cade drew his first Tie Fighter. Just like his Daddy!
Monday, September 8, 2008
Reading to my boys...
I have recently, over the past two months, rediscovered the joy of reading to my boys. I was diligent throughout the summer to bring in a 'new' batch of books from the local library every Tuesday. Cade and Morgan then weigh through the books (some are hits and some lay unnoticed), and they decide which ones to read. Morgan is OVERJOYED each week when the new pile of books arrive, and we sometimes read them all in one sitting.
Some of our book hits:
- Uno's Garden by Graeme Base (Great interactive book on being environmentally aware for kids & adults; look for the snortlepig on every page!)
- Engelbert Sneem and his Dream Vacuum Machine by Daniel Postgate
- Ugly Fish by Kara LaReau (Prepare yourself because he actually gets eaten at the end!)
Now with Cade we are reading through 'Harry Potter and the Sorcerers Stone'. He lays still next to me- at least most nights- and listen to all the words. A chapter a night- that is our routine. His favorite chapter so far has been 'Halloween' which is all about the Troll in the dungeon.
Lesson for the Day:
Sharing can be a challenge for my boys, and seems to only come as often as Christmas. One item in particular- Buzz Lightyear Nerf Bow & Arrow- now has a new home at the top of our bedroom closet. Hey, at least they both got to shot it 4 times a piece.
Sunday, September 7, 2008
A Lovely Trip to Woodland Park Zoo & More...
Fact of the Day:
A giraffe spends most of its day eating from trees with their very long tongues. Their tongues are purplish-black on top because if they were pink like human's they would get sunburned. (Cade and Morgan feed the giraffe's today without a single freak-out)
Quote of the Day:
Morgan: "Let me get this nasty pull-up off."
Artist: Galen Kin"Cade" Rowan
Title: Self Portrait of a 6 year old
Date Taken: Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Just Another Saturday- For First time Blogger...
Quote of the day:
Cade: "Ouch! I stepped on a Lego" Mommy: "Welcome to my world sweetie"
Small thing not to sweat:
"Unfolded Laundry still in the hamper...after a week."
Signs that I let my boys watch too much television:
1. Singing songs to the most obscure cartoons…and knowing all the words as well as the tune.
2. Seeing one character run across the screen and knowing the character and show name.
3. Reciting a complete ‘laugh out loud’ conversation from spongebob…"All senseless bubble blowing babies…”
4. They know the order of Saturday Cartoons, starting at 8:00 on the WB.
How to set my boys up for success:
1. ‘Only place one item on their dinner plate that requires persuasion to eat. Two items is asking for a fight.’ (Learned this lesson again, tonight)
2. ‘Prepare their bath with a small army of toys lining the rim of the bath tub. Army of toys = at least 30 minutes of peace' (Worked like a charm this evening...thank you Morgan!)